Monday, May 18, 2020
5 Reasons Why Being Grateful is the Best Career Strategy
5 Reasons Why Being Grateful is the Best Career Strategy We all want more â" more money, more passion, more clarity, more leads, and more opportunities⦠yes including me. The web is full of all sort of tips to actually do this and achieve more. But while we twirl our mustaches and rub our hands together, imagining all the ways we can get fun stuff for ourselves, itâs time to acknowledge one of the best ways to attract and hunt down opportunity: Itâs time to start being grateful for what we have already. Wait, hang on, Iâm not going to make this a hallmark moment; actually, the opposite. This is about getting all the best for yourself â" and only the best. Being grateful for what you have is like having your own awesome, âmoney, passion, position, experiencesâ-seeking missile made to nail opportunity to the ground, and this is why: 1. Youâll Know Where to Start When you stop and take stock of what you already have, you can assess why itâs so good for you. For example, letâs say youâre super grateful for your Facebook page. Why? Because it gives you a sense of community. Why? Because you can talk to people who understand you. Why? Because you can benefit from their insights and experiences to improve your quest for success. Boom. Now you have solid intel to help you move forward. What opportunity do you need to hunt down now? Being grateful just narrowed down your opportunity-hunting search criteria by a couple thousand points. 2. Youâll Know What to Stay Away From I have a pair of shoes I really, really love. Iâm super grateful for them because theyâre comfy, fashionable, and came at a good price. So if Iâm really happy to have them, when I go looking for another pair, Iâm looking for ones like mine. Are these boots cute and inexpensive, but super uncomfortable? Now I know I donât want them. The same applies to opportunities. If you love your current job/business because it gives you mobility, good wages, and interesting work, then when the opportunity for a killer job comes along that pays double, has really interesting work, but wants to stick you in nine-to-five office hours at a fixed location with fewer vacation days⦠guess what? Thereâs a big button labeled âreject,â and youâre going to be smashing it. 3. Youâll Know What Opportunities You Really Donât Need Maybe youâre the over-achieving type like me who wants to grab every single opportunity that flies my way because, âI gotta get it before it leaves!â But this can lead to you feeling over-booked, bogged down, and, honestly? In need of naps that last eight hours. An opportunity may be a great thing, but that doesnât always mean itâs great for you. By being grateful for what you have, you can assess what you donât actually need. You just got the most awesome job offer, but are you happy with the job you already have? Then turn it down; thereâs no need to work double hours or adjust to a new atmosphere if you donât really need it. Are you happy with the apartment youâre renting? Then you donât have to move to a new one just because itâs in a pretty area. 4. It Gives You Confidence Being content is pretty sexy. Iâm not saying be complacent, such as sitting in one spot and never moving beyond it. Iâm talking about being happy with what you have already. Being happy means being at peace, and being at peace means having confidence. Think of it this way: if youâre desperate to have a new job, youâre going to be really stressed about the job hunt. If you absolutely have to close a deal, youâre going to be poor conversation at the water cooler. Your confidence will be shot and youâll be preoccupied mentally. On the flipside? Being content means keeping your eyes open and carrying yourself differently. Youâll see the opportunities as they come and youâll be the balanced, sensible choice to those offering the prizes. 5. Most importantly â" the law of attraction Ever heard of âtime flies fast when youâre having fun?â Thatâs because your mind, rather than focusing on just the immediate, focuses on many things at once. This boosts your mood, which ultimately leads to your happiness. And it gets even better! The ability to broaden your perspective will allow you to spot those spur of the moment opportunities and take advantage of them. Itâll allow you to be creative in your approach and come with up new, on-demand, and highly useful ideas. We all have bad days and frustrating moments but itâs vital to force yourself into a positive frame of mind to help us snap out of it and attract better opportunities.
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